So once again a question has arisen regarding Dr. Ernest Grafenberg’s discovery of the elusive, holy-grail of sexual orgasms — the “G” Spot.
I find it interesting that researchers have the time (or funding, for that matter) to research such questions. Ask any woman who has enjoyed the long, intense, and eventually explosive orgasm resulting from intense, “G” spot stimulation, or any of the lucky men (or women) who enjoy the admiration of the women for whom they’ve helped reach this pinnacle of pleasure, and there’s no question to be considered, except perhaps why some women fail to achieve them.
First, the somewhat rigid, engorged washboard-like tissue on the upper part of the vaginal wall cannot be missed. I’ve never been with a woman yet who has been without this characteristic tissue; however, as many as half were themselves unaware of the existence of this most important part of their sexual pleasure center. Even after discussing it, some found its stimulation to be too distracting, and couldn’t get past the initial sensation of having to urinate — a typical, though mistaken feeling due to the pressure “G” spot stimulation places on the bladder.
The really disappointing thing about raising doubt in a woman’s mind regarding her “G” spot is that she may be turned away from this most wonderful experience. And it is often only a matter of faith that many women are operating on when it comes to this elusive spot, since reaching it themselves may be difficult, if not awkward.
Additionally, many men find it difficult enough believing in the “G” spot’s existence without having researchers hypothesizing its nonexistence. It requires a somewhat adventurous man, with a somewhat adventurous woman, plus a little direction, to find the “G” spot, as it is done so by touch alone. And this can be complicated when the woman’s response to its initial stimulation may
be the feeling of having to urinate. For some men, it goes against the locker room sex instruction of machismo and rapid thrusting.
So ladies — and you know who you are — ignore these researches and begin a close re-examination of that wonderful area of your anatomy. And men, feeling is believing, and the results, well, they form the proof positive. And finally, to the researchers, if you have to ask the question, then you’ve been doing far too much of your research in the lab, and I recommend homework.
Furthermore, having successfully executed this protocol many times, if any of you skeptical lady researchers would like to experience it first hand, you’ve got my eMail.
OK; my own comment, but nevertheless appropriate.
I can’t believe no one commented on this! Especially you ladies.
Comment by Michael — August 10, 2008 @ 2:28 pm |